Don't let idiots ruin your day.

      HUMAN. This word just doesn't describe homo sapiens, it means much more than that. It also describes an individual with feelings and uniqueness. Yeah, basically it describes you (unless its an animal reading this blog!), me and others around you. Everyone has their own mood swings. Some day you are very chirpy and bright, other days a bit tired and killjoy and few other days you might be bored to the point of depression. But, most of the days you wake up happy and go back to bed feeling morose.
Trust me, there is nothing wrong with you. Its the idiots around you, who wake up each morning with the hope to ruin someone's day.

Contemporary world is extremely competitive. People just don't compete for job and money anymore. They compete for petty things and stuff. Not all of them are saints to carry your well-being at heart. They try you, seduce you, make you fall until you break down.  They try to suck happiness out of you like dementors (I know this is pretty strong, but you know, its a slap on the face truth). Civilization has not only brought development and broad-mindedness among people but has also made them smart and cunning.
You may wonder what joy it is to see someone suffer? I guess its not just joy but the pure pleasure of it.

So, what are the ways by which idiots try to kneel you down? And how to find them?
 1) They let you into their life and slowly overpower you.

 2) They make you feel inferior by not letting you do things your way by feeding pessimistic idea into your mind.

3)They turn you up against people unnecessarily so you constantly worry about it rather than minding your own work.

4) They would make everything about themselves and never give a chance to exhibit yourself.

5) They constantly try to steal lime light by pushing you down and doing it 'sweetly'.

6) They always sweet talk to you and keep complimenting you about useless things. (A well-wisher never sweet-talks!)

7) They make you feel unwanted, sad and useless.

All of us have got idiots in our life. So, how to get past them?

If you find one of this kind, sack the bonds you have with them immediately. Either physically ignore them or tell the truth to their face. Never sugarcoat the truth, its time to clear the air. There is no point being nice in this barbaric world. You'll realize that, once you get past them, you will find yourself much happier and relaxed.

But its never just one, is it? There are millions out their plotting mysterious ways to ruin your day. We cannot go to every idiot and tell them, can we? Hence, the best way is to ignore them. At the end of the day it is you who is going to live with you. It is you who is going to suffer your fears and failures. It is you who is going to go out there the next day to put on a brave face. Idiots try to steal the love out of you but remember you have got people who love you and deserve your love.

So pull yourself up to fight these idiots. Wear your smile that you own and face them. Nothing freaks them like seeing you happy. And always bear in mind 'Never let idiots ruin your life'.

WHIPPED CREAM!!

Disclaimer: The title doesnot suggest any adulterated content....

In this post i have made a far-fetched comparison between whipped cream and a girl's life. IF you think this sounds completey absurd, now is the right time to move on to the next blog.

So, all this started yesterday when my sister and I started our shopping to buy ingredients for making diwali sweets. We, against the critical response from elders, thought of doing mango mousse and chocolate brownie. As many of you know, it is not easy to get hold of all the ingredients required to do this foreign dish. So we started our hunt for the ingredients. The first shop we went boosted my confidence, we got almost all the ingredients. But I think we paid our luck there in exchange for our goods because that was end of our shopping. We got everything except the whipped cream, which, for god knows why, is the most essential stuff for the desserts. So my sister and I, took her bike and started searching for whipped cream in all super-markets within a 10-mile radius.
But luck did not favour us. Two hours of search, no shop had whipped cream. I was not only crest fallen but also amazed because I was subjected to absurd enquiries about the whipped cream. This happened in one of the shops:
ME: Um, do you have any whipped cream?
Sales-person: Come again?
ME: WHIPPED CREAM.
Sales-person: (confused look) What?
ME: It's a type of cream...
sales-person:(before I finish) Face cream means , you have to go to the other end of the shop, madam.
ME:(stunned) No no, it's an edible cream. The kind you use in cakes..
She shows me different cartons of milk related objects. I politely tell those weren't what i was looking for and left the place with difficultly worn straight face.

So we came back home and told our mom about all the things. Her face couldn't have shown more smugness. Tired and frustrated, we sat in front our computer to see videos on how to make whipped cream. Atlast, since we din't have heavy cream either, we started to make whipped cream using fresh cream.

And,BAM! That's when the idea hit me. We, girls, are like whipped cream at the end.
Especially Indian girls.

We are like this milk when we are born, toned and moulded into a cream by our family. Whipped continuously until we are ready to be displayed in super markets(marriage websites) in this superficial all decorated cartons. And there comes the boy's family to whisk us away. We are whipped again at our new place,until we are ready! Trust me, we are ready by then to accomplice their needs as an icing or cream or softener or whatever the hell.

Yeah, so where is our stands? Again trust me, it's within ourselves. We have to decide whether or not to be whipped. What if we want to be fresh cream instead of whipped cream? what if we want to be just a milk and not a cream. That depends on us.

So, take hold of your life. Be strong. Don't let anyone change who you are. Be the same, it gets boring in a while, but it can never get any interesting if you change. It can only get more dooming.

The whole post may seem silly and childish. But that's all is life, Silly and childish and completely ridiculous.
So think hard. Follow your heart and do whatever it says, you will never intentionally hurt yourself.

HAppy diwali folks!!!!!